Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Camping 2009


Thanks to Dad for buying a printing screen and Angie for printing them all, we had homemade family silk screened t-shirts this year. On the front said "2009 Claycamp annual campout" and on the back was our last name with our "team" number. Dad was "Claycamp 01", Gretchen was "Reasbeck 03", I was "Ellison 05", the twins 6 & 7 and the grandkids all in order of birth as well with Livi being #14 and Aaron #17. Great job Ang. We were all already talking about what next year's shirts will look like.We all stood in order in this picture, Mom's spot #2 was not forgotten. Bill would've been down on the front row between Evan and Cody as #11. 
Right to left: Evan, Cody, Chandler, Olivia, Logan, Ethan, & Aaron.
Monday, July 20th at the BEACH
This definitely didn't last long. This was a pool of water left over from high tide that had
warmed up considerably, next to the temp of the ocean. I didn't put his swim suit on him because we weren't down by the surf. It didn't take Aaron long to find a waist deep hole and soak himself. A quick change into trunks and he was just fine.
The "oooh" didn't last long. Before too much time both the kids, and Angie were soaked to their upper thighs.
Livi, trying to hold mommy.
Such posers
Can one get more picturesque?!

Camping this year was a lot of fun. Admittedly I did not particularly enjoy last year's experience and wasn't really planning on coming this year for seconds (especially since Bill wasn't going to make it). But the kids had really wanted to go so I figured I'd give it another try. (Last year, nothing seemed to mesh. Tensions were high and everyone a bit on edge. Understandably so, it was the first time without mom and Livi had just gotten out of the hospital the month before.) But after this year, I'm so glad we went. It was A LOT OF FUN, and very enjoyable.

Sunday morning, July 19th, Adam went with the kids and I to a medical clinic in Redding to get Livi's chemo administered before we went camping. Dr. Mark Pierce, Bill's step-sister's dad, made this all possible. It was pretty funny though; I had to access Olivia's port since they're not used to it at the clinic. Dr. Pierce, or Mark, as we call him, was asking me what I need. I would ask/tell him to get this or that. It was interesting to watch a doctor of his level and ability graciously take a back seat so that Olivia could be as comfortable and calm as possible. It had been a while since I had accessed Livi's port so I was a bit nervous, but it came very naturally to me and Livi even said it was the easiest she's ever had! Thank you, Dr. Mom!

A big thank you to Adam for making the 4 1/2 hr drive up to the coast with me and the kids. We were able to have great conversation and the kids slept most of the way. I think I drove the whole way too... I don't remember. Anyways, it was a smooth ride and very enjoyable to watch the car's thermometer continually drop as we reached our final destination. Dad and Angie also came up on Sunday and when we got to our sites at Mill Creek Campground, just south of Crescent City, CA, we set up our tents. We have been camping here for as long as any of us can remember and I have a picture of me blowing out candles on my 2nd birthday cake in the redwoods, so this is pretty traditional. With the Claycamp family growing in numbers we have expanded now to 3 sites and while our Ellison family has been in our own site for the past 4 years we have all been able to stay relatively close to each other. The evening consisted of a traditional trip to WalMart, this time to get bug spray, it was quite "buggy" at camp (a little warm too) and a pillow for Adam(something is always forgotten). Dinner at Burger King and then back to camp for the evening.

For the past 8 years or so I have always gone up earlier than the other families. Many years it has been without Bill, and several was just with Mom and Dad. I remember the year I was pregnant with Olivia, riding up with just Mom and Dad feeling so sick. We had left late in the evening to not drive in the heat and stayed the night at a hotel just an hour or so south of the campground (being that the sites don't "open" til noon). This was also when there was no option of making reservations. We would have to make sure to get there first thing so as not to lose our coveted campsite #38. A couple of years we missed it and it was not easy trying to find one that qualified for our expectations.  Coming up before everyone else, for me, is relaxing. It gives me a chance to adjust and think out the week ahead of me, especially when Bill isn't there.
Monday was Evan's 9th birthday so after a day on the beach we decorated the campsite for the
 affair. The Claycamps and Reasbecks arrived in the afternoon. The cousins were all so excited to be together. They got their tents set up, this year with bunk bed cots, we threw some hotdogs on the fire and enjoyed cupcakes that Gretchen brought for Evan's birthday dessert.
The rest of the week was filled with... well, camping stuff. We rode bikes, went on lots of hikes, went crabbing at the pier, played more at the beach... Angie and I even decided to conquer the hill that leads from the ranger station down to the campsites on our bikes. No one in our family has never done it before, but Gee and I were successful. It is a very steep climb for 1 solid mile. Whew! The boys were amazed with their aunts. Rightfully so, I say!

Crescent City Park, much warmer than the beach. (Tuesday)
Aaron and Chan on the tire swing. Notice Logan's footwear. Adam and Ryan had taken the kids on a hike earlier that day, and like every year, some kids "just fell into the water!"? Aaron is wearing his wet shoes. For Aaron, this was a daily occurrence.
Chase, Gretchen, Ryan, Kristi and Emily
Playing hide-n-seek. (Garrett counting with Livi) I think I had the best hiding spot. I hid in the bend of a tube slide. Garrett and all the cousins were trying to find me and couldn't. It helped that I was helping other kids climb over me so they could get down the slide. Very sneaky! 

We did do some crabbing at the pier, for some reason I didn't get any pictures. We did get some rock crabs but not enough to do anything with so we gave them to a family that was trying it for the first time.

Around camp (Wednesday)
So, we had the three campsites but everyone came together at #38 for the cooking and hanging out. My mom and dad had bought a trailer several years ago that hauls everyone's equipment. (Everyone's except ours that is. Because we have never lived in Redding, if we can't pack it we can't take it.) Dad brings the stoves (a 3 and a 2 burner) and dutch ovens are brought by him and my older brother Garrett.
Evan
It was nice this year having the cousins all a little older. For the most part they are finally at an age where we can say, "go play" and they will. With their new found freedom I also decided to give them a little more responsibility and required their help on different tasks around the camp. Growing up, the 5 of us kids helped with everything. Now, because there are so many adults the kids pretty much get away with not helping... not with me. This was breakfast on Wednesday. Garrett is really quite the chef and always plans great dutch oven meals, this one was no different. The boys were eager to help because they got to use knives! (I don't know if their moms have let them do this before, but I figured, they might as well start at sometime. It went very well and they were all pleased with how they contributed.
Cody and Chandler
Garrett, AKA "dutch oven chef" with his boys Cody and Logan
Me and Adam (I can't help calling him "Bud"). He makes me laugh.
I had to fight very hard to get this picture. I just about had to wrestle Kristi (Garrett's wife) to the floor to get it. This is part of our morning routine. One little sink with a faucet that stays on for all of 5 seconds with freezing cold water. Kristi will one day look back longingly look back at all that hair and smile; for now she simply laughs.
"Good morning Olivia!" Our campsite was across the street from #38 so Livi's beauty sleep wasn't distracted by early rising boy cousins. It was very sweet though, most mornings the boys would be asking where she was and seldom did she exit the tent without one of them getting to her before both feet hit the dirt. This morning was no different. I would lay out her clothes for her each morning so she could get out and start the day running. I told everyone to "pose". Notice the boys' warrior poses. Now, check out "princess Leah", as they call her in play.
Angie and I studying her pics. Thanks Dad for the candid.
This particular morning Garrett, Ryan, Angie and I took all the cousins (minus the two 1 yr olds, Chase and Emily) on a hike around the campground. It was a nice hike that started in the dry creek bed behind #38 and climbed a mountain that turned into a "roller coaster" to run down and then ended back on the pavement around the corner from camp. It was very enjoyable for me to have kids that could pretty much keep up with the rest of the group. (Last year Livi could hardly make any hike, being just out of the hospital.) Aaron still complained the whole time and wanted to sit or be carried, but he too endured.

Little camp creatures we saw during the Junior Ranger program. I especially like the
"chick"munk. Although the dying butterfly made for interesting 
conversation with a 7, 6, two 5's and a 3 year old. The kids all had to make an oath for the program. I smiled at how seriously they all took it.

While we played at camp, Dad, Angie, Garrett and Adam tried their hand at crabbing again and had more luck.

A day on the beach (Friday)
 Thursday, we went to Fern Canyon... it deserves an entry all its own. Friday we all went to the beach in Crescent City. Lots of fun, like always.
Ryan was kaput from working so hard on his back yard pool (see Reasbeck Review for details) so he relaxed in the car with Gretchen, Evan and Chase who all kept warm, dry, and clean. Kristi kept vigil in their car with sleeping beauty Emily. My kids on the other hand had no intention of doing any of the aforementioned; keeping warm, dry or clean. I prefer it that way. Beaches are made to make you enjoy nature to its fullest.
Livi, Evan, Aaron and Cody
Logan, Ethan and Chandler were also down playing on the beach, but the Reasbecks and Claycamps were headed to the local aquarium. My kids
decided they'd rather save the money and do something with Dad when we got back home (so money smart!), so we chose to hang out at the beach. Hence Aaron and Olivia are the only ones getting wet and sandy. Once everyone left we had fun just the three of us building a castle with a mote and drawbridge. We had just finished the bridge and were getting ready to form the castle when the tide came and lapped everything up with it. The kids were so shocked! Regardless, we had fun getting dirty in the sand.
We hung out in our car for quite a while and just chilled. I made a "bed" of sorts for the kids, we ate lunch and snacked on munchies, and the kids watched videos on the DVD player. I read a book. It was great down time for all of us. The temperature was just right and a beautiful scene... what more could you ask for.
For dinner we met up with everyone at this restaurant. We try to go out to eat once a week while we're camping. It gives everyone a break from dutch oven cooking and the clean up at camp that comes after feeding 19 people. (Each night of the week each family takes a turn to prepare a meal for everyone. This year, because Bill wasn't there, I teamed up with Dad, Adam and Angie and did spare ribs with cornbread, baked beans and green salad.
Every night we were camping, Adam, Angie and I would stay up and play a game of one sort or another. We had lots of fun silly conversations and were able to enjoy time without the kids. Garrett and Kristi did join us one night, but the other 5 nights were just the three of us. This too has become somewhat of a tradition. Usually it's Bill staying up with the 3 of us. Bill and I would do this from the beginning and the other couples would say, "Just wait 'til you have kids." Then we had Olivia and we'd put her to bed and still stay up and play games and they'd say, "Just wait 'til you have 2 kids." Well now they just admit that they're too old. Hee hee! Anyways, the last night the three of us decided to try something new. We wanted to pull a prank on our fellow campers so earlier that day Angie bought some washable markers, at good old WalMart and once we heard heavy breathing throughout the camps we set to work. The trickiest part was getting inside the tents without being heard. I will smile 'til my dying day remembering Adam singing to himself, whistling, shuffling cards, and rattling Rumikub tiles just to create some constant background noise while Angie and I unzipped the Claycamps' tent. Inside the tents were pretty close to pitch black which made for guessing at our art work, and the kids that I got, Logan, Evan and Chandler, were all light sleepers which meant with every pen stroke they would rub their face and turn. Coming out of the Reasbecks' tent Angie tripped on a log and somehow lost her shoe. We searched with a flashlight for a good 5+ minutes and couldn't find the silly thing. We were flabbergasted as to where it could be, trying to not wake up the tent goers with our laughter. Finally the shoe was located 3-4 ft behind where she tripped. Off to bed we went and then I did my kids' faces. I took much liberty with them. As they would wake up at the sensation of drawing on their face they'd look at me wide eyed and I'd calm them back to sleep and keep drawing. In the morning as the kids woke up they all started pointing it out on each other. Cody and Logan said their parents couldn't stop laughing, come to find out it was more because of nerves. Gretchen too got a little upset at the fact that anybody could just walk in their tent and they wouldn't even know it. (I guess it's a good thing we didn't do our other plan of switching the kids from tent to tent.) Evan noticed his "camping tattoos" when he went to wash his face in the bathroom. He looked up in the mirror, he said, and jumped! Eventually everyone was told but it sure was funny watching the kids try to solve the "mystery" of the marker monster.
We packed up camp...
...and enjoyed a wonderful, family style lunch at "Somoa's Cookhouse" in Eureka.

Saturday, August 15, 2009

Wrapping up the week

Friday, the 17th, Mom, Grandpa Bob and I went to Redding's YMCA for a workout while the kids played in their play room. It was great to see the guy working the front desk say hi to Bob by name and tell him that he thought he had missed him that morning. Usually Grandpa goes at 6 or so, we didn't get there til 9 or 9:30. Bob does his two or three, I don't remember which, on the treadmill then does other machines. Mom and I just did some things here and there. I tried rowing for cardio... it was pretty good. I ran into an old family friend from the fire department, Mike Gould. It was nice to see him again and got to introduce him to my kids. (He worked at my dad's fire station when I was 11 or so.) Aaron was more than a little upset when it was time to go. He and Olivia had a great time playing with a marble tower and didn't want to leave. I explained how thankful I was that he was so good for going to the gym with us and that if he would like, I would get him a Slurpee. That was good for him. Grandpa didn't know what Slurpee's were so when he came inside to help get them, at the 7-11 I got one for him too. I got him Coke, thinking he would enjoy the nostalgic flavor, he loved it, and "slurped" up the entire thing. He told me that he remembered when Pepsi first came out. The whole add campaign was based on the fact that you could get a bigger bottle of the cola than coke for a nickel! (Coke, at the time was doing the smaller bottles of soda.)

Later in the day I took the kids to meet up with friends of mine from high school and their kids. Whitney and Casey have both married in to the Lowry family and were visiting their mother-in-law just south of town. It was nice to catch up with them and see all their cute kiddies.

Friday and Saturday night Mom and Tiger had prior commitments to attend so the kids and I hung out at my dad's to help get things ready for camping. Saturday was spent shopping for camping and packing for the week's trip to come.
This was Aaron shopping with me at Trader Joe's in Redding.

Love and Food

Or perhaps, "Food and Love". Either way I felt like I enjoyed myself immensely and gained 10 lbs while staying with Mom and Tiger. 

We always enjoy being with them and staying at their house. We have fun conversations and really enjoy just being together. Every time we get there, the first thing Aaron wants to do is run up and say hi to Papa T. Livi goes with him and soon they come back down from the office with Papa in tow. Aaron really meshes well with Papa and I told Tiger that somehow, Aaron has inherited his genes with how he interacts with people. Like Tiger, Aaron has no inhibitions when in a crowded room. Aaron will go up to anybody, ask their name (and admittedly, their age) and strike up a conversation. I love it! It reminds me to live life a little more fully.
Wednesday night after Applebee's we came home and got ready for bed, or at least attempted to. By this time it had been a week and a half since the kids had wrestled with dad, and when they saw Papa T laying on their giant king size bed, neither of them could resist. It was so fun to watch. It lasted a good hour and wore everyone out.
Thursday morning, the 16th, the kids and I took it slow and once we headed out to do some errands we got a phone call from Grandma. She and Aunt Sherral, her sister, were having lunch at Pio Loco and wanted us to join them. We met them at the mexican restaurant and had a great time. Sherral is such a beautiful woman and it always makes me smile just to see the love that she has in her eyes.

After spending the day with the Reasbecks, we gave Evan a Webkinz owl for his birthday and helped him set up an account, we got home, Aaron had fallen asleep in the car, and Mom and Tiger were waiting for us to go to dinner! Grandpa had felt bad for Susie picking up the bill the previous night so he wanted to take us to the club that he is a patron of. It was all very sweet. (The kids enjoyed Great Grandpa's company so much and had been playing tag with him the previous night. When we dropped him off, after Applebee's he reached back in the car, asked to shake Aaron's hand, swatted it and said, "tagged you, no tag backs". The kids LOVED it. He may be old in numbers, but his heart and mind are SO young and full of life.) 
Going to the club was a lot of fun. Grandpa, Mom and Tiger knew everyone there and introduced the kids and I.  I was able to chat to them and recognized some of the patrons from an old job I had at Sunset Market. Most were elderly but adored the kids, especially Aaron with his outgoing personality. Grandpa made it to our table before us and had even ordered Aaron's root beer and had it waiting for him by the time we made it to the table. (The root beer was requested by a very cranky little boy who woke up from his car nap in the club's parking lot.) Grandpa used to frequent the club with his wife Mary who passed away last fall. It was noticeably uncomfortable for him to be at a table next to the table of all the couples that he and his bride once sat with. I just wanted to give him the biggest hug. I understood his pain. He misses his sweetheart so very much. I patted his back and rubbed his shoulder and just smiled while we ate our meal.
Cheers!
After dinner, Grandpa asked the kids if they wanted ice cream. Well, of course the answer was yes. Great Grandpa insisted on a parlor even though there were 3 cartons back at the house from the previous night. As we were leaving Aaron walked right up to the "couples'" table and told them all that Grandpa was taking him to ice cream. (I was very proud of my son. Bob was beaming.)We went to Baskin Robbins where he treated everyone to a cone. There's something so fun about eating an ice cream cone. We all had such a great time. Very precious memories. 
And last but not least, a tribute to Mom and Tiger; all of this on their 15th wedding anniversary. We love you guys.

Bar Hopping with Toddlers

Disclaimer: one doesn't need to consume alcohol to sit at a bar. Apparently they don't even care if your age is still in the single digits! (Read on for further details.)
Wednesday, after the lake, the kids and I headed back to Grandma and Papa T.'s house to get ready for dinner. (We were staying with them for the week in Redding.) The Redding Fire Department was doing a fundraiser at Logan's Roadhouse for the local hospital's childrens' wing. Specifically for kids with cancer and other life threatening illnesses. Needless to say I wanted to go. (Any chance I have to go help the RFD or kids with cancer, I'm there. The bond is pretty close to my heart.) Tiger, Mom and Grandpa Bob all rode in our car to join the festivities. It was a lot of fun to watch my kids' excitement with something that was common place to me as a kid. They got to climb and take pictures on the ladder truck. 
I got to visit with one of the firefighters that helped save my dad's life 8 years ago. And we all got to visit with Rotary friends. It was great to see so much support for the cause, especially in this "struggling economy". The firefighters were waiting on the tables and all the tips were going towards the hospital. Because of the enormous crowds the wait was a little too extreme for our party, it had been an hour and it was at least 1/2 hr more, and after everyone had enjoyed a few drinks from Logan's bar, (the kids and I enjoyed our Shirley Temples), we decided to go next door to Applebee's.
Papa T. went to the bar to order a drink and Livi and Aaron clambered right up the barstools 
in front of him and proceeded to order. This time they got a virgin Strawberry Daiquiri. We were all laughing that we were taking the kids bar hopping in Redding. The other patrons at the bar thought it to be somewhat comical to see a 5 and 3 year old downing the drink, sitting at the bar. The bartender got a kick out of it and didn't mind. He kept handing Aaron more napkins. (Those of you who've had the privilege of seeing him eat will understand this.) 
Well, we finally got to our table and what did we discover...
I was dying! I could not believe that out of all the tables in the restaurant AND the fact that we hadn't even started at that restaurant, AND that we were with their Dad and Grandfather!!! Bryan happened to call while we were sitting there with Tiger trying hopelessly to convince himself that it wasn't HIS BOYS. (Yeah, cause there's SO many "Bob and Bryan" pairs out there. Bob and Bryan are Tiger's twins who like to..."spice" things up a bit.)Bryan of course had no recollection and later that evening when Bob called, all he could do was laugh.
Being with you guys is always SUCH A BLAST!

Sunday, August 9, 2009

A day on the lake

Tuesday, July 7th, I took the kids up to my brother's house in Anderson, to join all the cousins in their pool. We ordered pizzas from Papa Murphy's and swam for quite a while. I helped Kristi, who is due with a surprise baby in December (which will make #4) restore some order to her boys' room. Apparently Logan is quite the fashionista!!!

Cutie little boat babes.

Wednesday we were lucky enough to be taken out on Shasta Lake in my dad's boat. I haven't been on the lake, except for once with Livi, when she was a baby, for over 12 years! This was a much anticipated day.
There's something so relaxing about seeing bare sun kissed skin on leather boat seats. To me nothing says summer better. Don't worry, the boat hasn't been put in the water yet. Life jackets were quickly adorned.

Angie came and brought her friend Rachel that she has been in nursing school with at Shasta College. The kids had fun being with new people. They are very much social butterflies.

Aaron had a ball flipping out of the tubes.

Olivia getting ready for the ride.

Aaron, after the ride. Love the hair buddy.

They loved the inner-tubes. Surprisingly, Livi was wanting to go faster than Aaron. Regardless they both had a blast and wanted to go again and again. Even just swimming in the lake around the boat and eating our packed lunches... SO MUCH FUN!

We couldn't help but all be reminded of my mom while looking at Livi on the boat and in the lake. One of Mom's most favorite things was the lake. Dad couldn't drive fast enough, quick enough and we never just sat in the water long enough.


And a trip on the boat wouldn't be complete without Papa showing you how to drive!

Thanks Dad!