Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Olivia's 1st day of School


I almost cried. But not for any reason that most parents would understand. Bill and I agreed, it was so wonderful to be seeing our daughter finally be able to do what all the other kids her age are supposed to be doing. Going to school.

As anyone who knows Livi would guess, she was very excited. We have been, for the last couple of weeks working on a schedule that allows for "homework" time. We've decided that official homework or not, Olivia will sit down with me daily, M-F and either read, write a letter or practice math facts. So far we've been reading a lot.

Sunday she decided she wanted to label her clothes for the week. At the time I thought it was a good thing for her to kill some time with. We made a chart where she wrote the days of the school week and then next to the day we drew pictures of what she was going to wear that day. We made sure all the clothes for the week were clean and hung it on her closet door. I LOVE IT! (Tuesday I accidentally laid out her jean shorts instead of her skirt and she about had a conniption fit! It takes the guess work out of the morning routine, which is just what she needed.)

Aaron left for school on the bus and I helped Livi do her hair and finish getting ready. (I liked that she wanted to wear the necklace my mom used to wear.) Fortunately Bill was able to go in to work a little late, so the two of us headed out the door to walk our daughter to school. Bozarth Elementary is a brand new school where construction is still happening on the perimeter. It is less than a 1/2 mile from our house and took us 17 minutes to walk... uphill. (We figured if we could jump the wall we'd shave 7 minutes and a lot of sweat, it's hot!)
Bill was gracious and carried Livi's blue with white polk-a-dots and a bright pink stripe backpack most of the way as I carried the muffins I had made for the parents "Boo-hoo Yahoo Breakfast."(I am able to volunteer my time to be on the PTA board as the communications/PR director. That's a fancy way of saying, I'm in charge of making all the signs and fliers for events.) 
We got to the kindergarten playground and joined the throngs of parents awkwardly watching their children wondering what the school year had in store for their child. Like I mentioned previously, I was just thrilled that she was able to be where she was supposed to be.
Her girlfriend, Natalya Reeve, is in her class. We used to be in the same ward until we split, so it's fun for them to see each other every day.
(Gotta love the PTA shirt)

Olivia's teacher, Ms. Lee, had the kids repeat after her, as they lined up on their dot to go inside after the bell, "I'm going to go inside now. I'll be fine. You'll be fine..." to all the parents. This backfired on my child.
She went from confident in knowing who she is and what she's doing there, to...
...a little girl who was lost in a crowd of kids wondering for the first time, "what do you mean 'I'll be fine. They'll be fine.'? What's not to be fine about? Is there something that's not 'fine' about this situation I've gotten myself into?!?!?!" I actually watched her face fall and her bottom lip start to tremble. I just smiled. She's dealt with worse. I knew she'd figure it all out.

And she did! Her first words to me when I met her outside the classroom door, "I can't wait 'til tomorrow!"

Aaron's 1st day of School

Monday, August 24, 2009
What a momentous day! Not one but both of our children started their life long quest of education beyond the home today.

Aaron was accepted in to a pathology speech program due to his "inability" to produce certain sounds of speech. (Specifically his frontal sounds; "d", "t", "s", and other sounds that are formed at the front of one's mouth.) I was very pleased that he was able to get in to the program as there's only a few in the entire Las Vegas valley. He will attend Mondays and Wednesdays for 2 1/2 hrs a day, just like kinder. Because we live 5+ miles from the school where the speech pathologist works he was qualified for bussing. I took him last Thursday to meet his teacher, Mrs. Powers. She went to shake his hand, he took it politely and then with shy eyes looked at me and said, "She's like Grandma Susie."
Monday morning was CRAZY! Aaron was to be picked up by the bus at 7:55. At 7:40 Aaron started yelling, "she's here! She's here! The bus is here!" We didn't believe him. I told him, "No, it's okay Aaron, we still have time." We still had to brush his hair, pack his bag and brush his teeth. "No Mom. I see the bus!" I looked outside and sure enough, the big yellow slug was outside pulled up to our driveway. I ran outside and jokingly told the driver she was early which she agreed to and told us not to worry. Bill quickly did Aaron's hair, I packed his bag(complete with snacks for the ride home and a change of clothes in case an accident), skipped the teeth brushing, took some pictures and my baby was off to school. I will admit, I cried. Not for any other reason than I felt guilty for making my son ride the bus on the first day of school. Bill said, as we were waving to him on the bus, "Whatever you do, don't let him see you cry." Words to live by I'm sure. (I didn't even get a picture with him with any of us!)

We loved this shirt. Bill picked it out for him. Perfect.
Was all smiles until the nerves started to kick in.
After all was said and done, this is Aaron being dropped off at home.
He told me about his first day and the 3 other kids in his class, one of whose name he couldn't remember, but had the most to say about the bus. He told me that Ms. Webb, his morning driver, didn't know where his school was. I was puzzled at that. Then he explained that she passed his school that was by the Bonds' house! (The Bonds are friends of our who live next to the school he went to last year for 1/2 and hour 2 days/week.) I felt bad and wondered how long he stressed about the confusion. When I reminded him that I had taken him to his new school to meet his new teacher he said, with palm pressed to his forehead, "Oh yeah! I forgot." (I later talked to Ms. Webb and she conveyed that he was jabbering up a storm but she couldn't figure out what was wrong. Poor little guy. So misunderstood.) When Aaron told me about his ride home on the bus with Ms. Kelly, he said, "I told her a million times, 'take me home!'." He is the first to be picked up and the last to be dropped off. I asked him if he liked the busses and he said yes, but didn't care to ride them again. We have compromised. I will drive him in the morning and he'll ride the bus home.
So today, Wednesday, I took him to school and got the "1st day of school photo" with his teacher, who in his mind, looks like Grandma Susie.
It's the whole hair thing. And the tenderness he feels from her. It's a good thing.

Dinner guests

Tuesday, August 18th we were fortunate to have family come for dinner. Bill's step brother, Bob, and his bride, Deanne, were in town celebrating their one year wedding anniversary. (Livi was a flower girl in their wedding last summer.) We were thrilled that they took the time to travel up away from the glam of the strip and visit with us for the evening. It was great to visit with them and the kids had a blast!
Once we got everyone situated for the photo, you can tell Aaron is not where he wants to be.
As soon as I clicked, he RAN over to stand by Deanne, and then would smile for the camera.

It will be great to get together again. Our place or yours...just together would be fun.

Monday, August 24, 2009

Visitor


Our dear friend Natalie came back to visit us!!! (August 10-13th)We love when she comes.

Tuesday we went bowling, of course. And even after we went Aaron wanted MORE! He was a little incessant about the bowling.
What a wicked form Livi! Papa would be proud.
Wednesday Livi was invited through Make-a-Wish to come paint pottery. Aaron was able to come and everyone had a lot of fun. Eric is a volunteer and really took a liking to Liv.
Thursday we took a new venture and went hiking up at Mt. Charleston. Yes, Livi and Aaron decided they were cold. (I guess when you're used to triple digits the 80's can be a bit chilly.

Can't wait until next time!!!



Fern Canyon


Fern Canyon is a beautiful canyon that is covered in ferns. Pretty straight forward. (Aaron is very into logical thinking lately and he would say, because he does this with everything, "It's a canyon and it's ferns. That's why it's Fern Canyon." Oh, okay.) Regardless, it is a beautiful place and had a big screen showing in "Jurassic Park". Dad's leg was hurting so he stayed at the car and read his book. The other 16 of us set out on the short hike through the little piece of heaven on earth.
We rode with the Claycamps to our destination. Emily is such a cutie.
The ride to the canyon is a bit long. Luckily Livi could chat with Logan. They had a good time.
I couldn't resist this picture. I thought it was cute how Garrett and Ryan were letting the babies on their backs talk/see eachother. After I took the picture I laughed. It looked as if the dads were going to kiss!
Aaron loves his Uncle Adam
Me, Angie and Gretchen. We have to take a picture of the sisters.
Ta DA!
Gee and Aaron (Ryan in the background with Chase in the pack)
Cody, Aunt Kristi, Logan, Uncle Garrett, Emily, Livi, Aaron, Chandler
This is Chandler, but all the 3 older boys were very excited to take this leap. The picture does not do it justice. It was a rather high jump. I definitely would not have done it.
Angie and I, thanks to the other adults for taking my kids, decided to try a different route on the way back. It followed the canyon floor, just higher in the canopy of evergreens. We got to the floor a bit ahead of our group and tried to scare them but didn't quite pull it off.
Don't I have good lookin' brothers?! 
The canyon sits just inland of a great beach. It was a little bit of a walk where at times we had to trudge lightly around the mud holes, Aaron just walked right through them, oh well, but we finally made it to the beach.
This is the Claycamp's first ever attempt at a human pyramid. I'd say we did pretty good for none of the kids having the slightest clue what we were doing to them.
Top left to bottom right: Ethan, Olivia, Aaron, Logan Cody, Evan, Chandler, Adam, Angie, Ryan, Rachel, Garrett, Chase, Emily. 
All because two people fell in love!!! Thanks Mom and Dad.

And of course, what good would a day on the beach be if you didn't bury someone in the sand?!
Volunteers anyone?

What better way than to end the day back at camp crackin' crab legs with Papa.
(Cody, Papa, Adam, Chandler, Livi and Logan)

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Camping 2009


Thanks to Dad for buying a printing screen and Angie for printing them all, we had homemade family silk screened t-shirts this year. On the front said "2009 Claycamp annual campout" and on the back was our last name with our "team" number. Dad was "Claycamp 01", Gretchen was "Reasbeck 03", I was "Ellison 05", the twins 6 & 7 and the grandkids all in order of birth as well with Livi being #14 and Aaron #17. Great job Ang. We were all already talking about what next year's shirts will look like.We all stood in order in this picture, Mom's spot #2 was not forgotten. Bill would've been down on the front row between Evan and Cody as #11. 
Right to left: Evan, Cody, Chandler, Olivia, Logan, Ethan, & Aaron.
Monday, July 20th at the BEACH
This definitely didn't last long. This was a pool of water left over from high tide that had
warmed up considerably, next to the temp of the ocean. I didn't put his swim suit on him because we weren't down by the surf. It didn't take Aaron long to find a waist deep hole and soak himself. A quick change into trunks and he was just fine.
The "oooh" didn't last long. Before too much time both the kids, and Angie were soaked to their upper thighs.
Livi, trying to hold mommy.
Such posers
Can one get more picturesque?!

Camping this year was a lot of fun. Admittedly I did not particularly enjoy last year's experience and wasn't really planning on coming this year for seconds (especially since Bill wasn't going to make it). But the kids had really wanted to go so I figured I'd give it another try. (Last year, nothing seemed to mesh. Tensions were high and everyone a bit on edge. Understandably so, it was the first time without mom and Livi had just gotten out of the hospital the month before.) But after this year, I'm so glad we went. It was A LOT OF FUN, and very enjoyable.

Sunday morning, July 19th, Adam went with the kids and I to a medical clinic in Redding to get Livi's chemo administered before we went camping. Dr. Mark Pierce, Bill's step-sister's dad, made this all possible. It was pretty funny though; I had to access Olivia's port since they're not used to it at the clinic. Dr. Pierce, or Mark, as we call him, was asking me what I need. I would ask/tell him to get this or that. It was interesting to watch a doctor of his level and ability graciously take a back seat so that Olivia could be as comfortable and calm as possible. It had been a while since I had accessed Livi's port so I was a bit nervous, but it came very naturally to me and Livi even said it was the easiest she's ever had! Thank you, Dr. Mom!

A big thank you to Adam for making the 4 1/2 hr drive up to the coast with me and the kids. We were able to have great conversation and the kids slept most of the way. I think I drove the whole way too... I don't remember. Anyways, it was a smooth ride and very enjoyable to watch the car's thermometer continually drop as we reached our final destination. Dad and Angie also came up on Sunday and when we got to our sites at Mill Creek Campground, just south of Crescent City, CA, we set up our tents. We have been camping here for as long as any of us can remember and I have a picture of me blowing out candles on my 2nd birthday cake in the redwoods, so this is pretty traditional. With the Claycamp family growing in numbers we have expanded now to 3 sites and while our Ellison family has been in our own site for the past 4 years we have all been able to stay relatively close to each other. The evening consisted of a traditional trip to WalMart, this time to get bug spray, it was quite "buggy" at camp (a little warm too) and a pillow for Adam(something is always forgotten). Dinner at Burger King and then back to camp for the evening.

For the past 8 years or so I have always gone up earlier than the other families. Many years it has been without Bill, and several was just with Mom and Dad. I remember the year I was pregnant with Olivia, riding up with just Mom and Dad feeling so sick. We had left late in the evening to not drive in the heat and stayed the night at a hotel just an hour or so south of the campground (being that the sites don't "open" til noon). This was also when there was no option of making reservations. We would have to make sure to get there first thing so as not to lose our coveted campsite #38. A couple of years we missed it and it was not easy trying to find one that qualified for our expectations.  Coming up before everyone else, for me, is relaxing. It gives me a chance to adjust and think out the week ahead of me, especially when Bill isn't there.
Monday was Evan's 9th birthday so after a day on the beach we decorated the campsite for the
 affair. The Claycamps and Reasbecks arrived in the afternoon. The cousins were all so excited to be together. They got their tents set up, this year with bunk bed cots, we threw some hotdogs on the fire and enjoyed cupcakes that Gretchen brought for Evan's birthday dessert.
The rest of the week was filled with... well, camping stuff. We rode bikes, went on lots of hikes, went crabbing at the pier, played more at the beach... Angie and I even decided to conquer the hill that leads from the ranger station down to the campsites on our bikes. No one in our family has never done it before, but Gee and I were successful. It is a very steep climb for 1 solid mile. Whew! The boys were amazed with their aunts. Rightfully so, I say!

Crescent City Park, much warmer than the beach. (Tuesday)
Aaron and Chan on the tire swing. Notice Logan's footwear. Adam and Ryan had taken the kids on a hike earlier that day, and like every year, some kids "just fell into the water!"? Aaron is wearing his wet shoes. For Aaron, this was a daily occurrence.
Chase, Gretchen, Ryan, Kristi and Emily
Playing hide-n-seek. (Garrett counting with Livi) I think I had the best hiding spot. I hid in the bend of a tube slide. Garrett and all the cousins were trying to find me and couldn't. It helped that I was helping other kids climb over me so they could get down the slide. Very sneaky! 

We did do some crabbing at the pier, for some reason I didn't get any pictures. We did get some rock crabs but not enough to do anything with so we gave them to a family that was trying it for the first time.

Around camp (Wednesday)
So, we had the three campsites but everyone came together at #38 for the cooking and hanging out. My mom and dad had bought a trailer several years ago that hauls everyone's equipment. (Everyone's except ours that is. Because we have never lived in Redding, if we can't pack it we can't take it.) Dad brings the stoves (a 3 and a 2 burner) and dutch ovens are brought by him and my older brother Garrett.
Evan
It was nice this year having the cousins all a little older. For the most part they are finally at an age where we can say, "go play" and they will. With their new found freedom I also decided to give them a little more responsibility and required their help on different tasks around the camp. Growing up, the 5 of us kids helped with everything. Now, because there are so many adults the kids pretty much get away with not helping... not with me. This was breakfast on Wednesday. Garrett is really quite the chef and always plans great dutch oven meals, this one was no different. The boys were eager to help because they got to use knives! (I don't know if their moms have let them do this before, but I figured, they might as well start at sometime. It went very well and they were all pleased with how they contributed.
Cody and Chandler
Garrett, AKA "dutch oven chef" with his boys Cody and Logan
Me and Adam (I can't help calling him "Bud"). He makes me laugh.
I had to fight very hard to get this picture. I just about had to wrestle Kristi (Garrett's wife) to the floor to get it. This is part of our morning routine. One little sink with a faucet that stays on for all of 5 seconds with freezing cold water. Kristi will one day look back longingly look back at all that hair and smile; for now she simply laughs.
"Good morning Olivia!" Our campsite was across the street from #38 so Livi's beauty sleep wasn't distracted by early rising boy cousins. It was very sweet though, most mornings the boys would be asking where she was and seldom did she exit the tent without one of them getting to her before both feet hit the dirt. This morning was no different. I would lay out her clothes for her each morning so she could get out and start the day running. I told everyone to "pose". Notice the boys' warrior poses. Now, check out "princess Leah", as they call her in play.
Angie and I studying her pics. Thanks Dad for the candid.
This particular morning Garrett, Ryan, Angie and I took all the cousins (minus the two 1 yr olds, Chase and Emily) on a hike around the campground. It was a nice hike that started in the dry creek bed behind #38 and climbed a mountain that turned into a "roller coaster" to run down and then ended back on the pavement around the corner from camp. It was very enjoyable for me to have kids that could pretty much keep up with the rest of the group. (Last year Livi could hardly make any hike, being just out of the hospital.) Aaron still complained the whole time and wanted to sit or be carried, but he too endured.

Little camp creatures we saw during the Junior Ranger program. I especially like the
"chick"munk. Although the dying butterfly made for interesting 
conversation with a 7, 6, two 5's and a 3 year old. The kids all had to make an oath for the program. I smiled at how seriously they all took it.

While we played at camp, Dad, Angie, Garrett and Adam tried their hand at crabbing again and had more luck.

A day on the beach (Friday)
 Thursday, we went to Fern Canyon... it deserves an entry all its own. Friday we all went to the beach in Crescent City. Lots of fun, like always.
Ryan was kaput from working so hard on his back yard pool (see Reasbeck Review for details) so he relaxed in the car with Gretchen, Evan and Chase who all kept warm, dry, and clean. Kristi kept vigil in their car with sleeping beauty Emily. My kids on the other hand had no intention of doing any of the aforementioned; keeping warm, dry or clean. I prefer it that way. Beaches are made to make you enjoy nature to its fullest.
Livi, Evan, Aaron and Cody
Logan, Ethan and Chandler were also down playing on the beach, but the Reasbecks and Claycamps were headed to the local aquarium. My kids
decided they'd rather save the money and do something with Dad when we got back home (so money smart!), so we chose to hang out at the beach. Hence Aaron and Olivia are the only ones getting wet and sandy. Once everyone left we had fun just the three of us building a castle with a mote and drawbridge. We had just finished the bridge and were getting ready to form the castle when the tide came and lapped everything up with it. The kids were so shocked! Regardless, we had fun getting dirty in the sand.
We hung out in our car for quite a while and just chilled. I made a "bed" of sorts for the kids, we ate lunch and snacked on munchies, and the kids watched videos on the DVD player. I read a book. It was great down time for all of us. The temperature was just right and a beautiful scene... what more could you ask for.
For dinner we met up with everyone at this restaurant. We try to go out to eat once a week while we're camping. It gives everyone a break from dutch oven cooking and the clean up at camp that comes after feeding 19 people. (Each night of the week each family takes a turn to prepare a meal for everyone. This year, because Bill wasn't there, I teamed up with Dad, Adam and Angie and did spare ribs with cornbread, baked beans and green salad.
Every night we were camping, Adam, Angie and I would stay up and play a game of one sort or another. We had lots of fun silly conversations and were able to enjoy time without the kids. Garrett and Kristi did join us one night, but the other 5 nights were just the three of us. This too has become somewhat of a tradition. Usually it's Bill staying up with the 3 of us. Bill and I would do this from the beginning and the other couples would say, "Just wait 'til you have kids." Then we had Olivia and we'd put her to bed and still stay up and play games and they'd say, "Just wait 'til you have 2 kids." Well now they just admit that they're too old. Hee hee! Anyways, the last night the three of us decided to try something new. We wanted to pull a prank on our fellow campers so earlier that day Angie bought some washable markers, at good old WalMart and once we heard heavy breathing throughout the camps we set to work. The trickiest part was getting inside the tents without being heard. I will smile 'til my dying day remembering Adam singing to himself, whistling, shuffling cards, and rattling Rumikub tiles just to create some constant background noise while Angie and I unzipped the Claycamps' tent. Inside the tents were pretty close to pitch black which made for guessing at our art work, and the kids that I got, Logan, Evan and Chandler, were all light sleepers which meant with every pen stroke they would rub their face and turn. Coming out of the Reasbecks' tent Angie tripped on a log and somehow lost her shoe. We searched with a flashlight for a good 5+ minutes and couldn't find the silly thing. We were flabbergasted as to where it could be, trying to not wake up the tent goers with our laughter. Finally the shoe was located 3-4 ft behind where she tripped. Off to bed we went and then I did my kids' faces. I took much liberty with them. As they would wake up at the sensation of drawing on their face they'd look at me wide eyed and I'd calm them back to sleep and keep drawing. In the morning as the kids woke up they all started pointing it out on each other. Cody and Logan said their parents couldn't stop laughing, come to find out it was more because of nerves. Gretchen too got a little upset at the fact that anybody could just walk in their tent and they wouldn't even know it. (I guess it's a good thing we didn't do our other plan of switching the kids from tent to tent.) Evan noticed his "camping tattoos" when he went to wash his face in the bathroom. He looked up in the mirror, he said, and jumped! Eventually everyone was told but it sure was funny watching the kids try to solve the "mystery" of the marker monster.
We packed up camp...
...and enjoyed a wonderful, family style lunch at "Somoa's Cookhouse" in Eureka.